For those who r Married as well as for those who wil get Married…..
Sharing a few thoughts for Would – be grooms
For Would-Be Grooms:
Rule.No.1 – Never compare your mamma’s cooking with your wife’s!
There is no faster way to dig your own grave than that! Please
understand that your mom’s cooking has the backing of 20 odd years of
experience… ..don’t expect that from your wife whose hardly into the
process! What if she were to compare your earning capacity with her
dad’s!!! So shshshhhhh… ..!!!
Rule.No.2 : Never go out of your way to please the lady with
flowers, chocolates and gifts during your engagement period. If ever
you do , please follow it up post-wedding too! When you could cover
20kms in 15 minutes when you are engaged just to spend some time with
her, how dare you forget her birthday post – marriage, even after you
are given the broadest of hints by her!
Remember expectations always double…ever heard of them being halved???
Rule.No.3: Do compliment her every now and then, verbally or
with gifts! What are those lovely Teddies and Archies gift cards for?
Don’t sit there like the Lord Of The Rings expecting to be waited upon!
Of course she will do it but everyone likes to be appreciated and
pampered!!!!
Rule.No.4: This is very important! Sulking or complaining about
marriage being a big mistake is a strict NO -NO!! You got into it with
your eyes wide open, brimming with enthusiasm!! No one ever pushed you
into it! So why this drama now!
Rule..No.5: Be Brave and take your own decisions and stand up by
them!!
Consult your parents for advice but realise that you are grown up
enough to lead your life!
Respect your partner’s views at all times! Remember she has given up a
lot more to make a life
with you!!
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