During my second month of college, our professor Gave us a pop
quiz. I was a conscientious student
And had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:
“What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?” Surely
this was some kind of joke. I had seen the Cleaning woman several
times. She was tall, Dark-haired and in her 50′s, but how would I know
her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last
question Blank. Just before class ended, one
student asked if The last question would count toward our quiz
grade.. Absolutely, ” said the professor. “In your careers, You will
meet many people. All are significant.. They Deserve your attention and
care, even if all you do Is smile and say “hello.” I’ve never forgotten
that lesson.. I also learned her Name was Dorothy.
2. – Second Important Lesson – Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American Woman was
standing on the side of an Alabama
Trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her
car had Broken down and she
desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the
nextcar.
A young white man stopped to help her, generally Unheard of in those
conflict-filled 1960′s. The man Took her to safety, helped her get
assistance and Put her into a taxicab.
She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his Address and
thanked him. Seven days went by and a Knock came on the man’s door. To
his surprise, a Giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A
Special note was attached. It read: “Thank you so much for assisting me
on thehighway The other night. The rain drenched not only my Clothes,
but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to
make it to my dying Husband’s’ bedside just before he passed away… God
Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving Others.” Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole.
3 – Third Important Lesson – Always remember those Who serve.
In the days when an ice cream sundae
cost much less, A 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and Sat
at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in Front of him. “How much
is anice cream sundae?” he asked. “Fifty cents,” replied the waitress.
The little boy pulled his hand
out of his pocket and Studied the coins
in it. “Well, how much is a plain dish of ice
cream?”
he inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the
Waitress was growing impatient. “Thirty-five cents,” she brusquely
replied.. Thelittle boy again counted his coins. “I’ll have the plain
ice cream,” he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill
on The table and walked away The boy finished the ice Cream
, paid the cashier and left.. When the waitress Came back, she began to
cry as she wiped down the Table. There, placed neatly beside the empty
dish, Were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn’t have the
sundae, because he had To have enough
Left to leave her a tip.
4 – Fourth Important Lesson. – The obstacle in Our Path.
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a
Roadway.
Then he hid himself and watched to see if Anyone would remove the huge
rock. Some of the King’s’ wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
And simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not
keeping the roads clear, but none did Anything about getting the stone
out of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
Vegetables.
Upon approaching the boulder, the Peasant laid down his burden and
tried to move the Stone to the side of the road. After much pushing And
straining, he finally succeeded. After the Peasant picked up his load
ofvegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder
had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King
indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder
from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand!
Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.
5 – Fifth Important Lesson – Giving When it Counts….
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to
know a little
girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her
only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her
5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and
had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor
explained the situation to herlittle brother, and asked the little boy
if he would be willing to give his blood to his
sister.
I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and
saying, “Yes I’ll do it if it will save her.” As the transfusion
progressed, he lay in bed next to hissister and smiled, as we all did,
seeing the color returning to her cheek.. Then his
face
grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked
with a trembling voice, “Will I start to die right way”. Being young,
thelittle boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to
have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.
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